solved!! thank you nostr:npub12zx4tu9vrtg3857edthsemg38whqnxv6fj9ktwqqtcf67achkcsq5tx6fq

I had to turn off derivation path validation in the Preferences in sparrow. Create a new wallet, change the script type to Legacy. Choose Software Wallet, enter seed phrase. Before you click Import Keystore, change the derivation path to m/84’/0’/0’. Import the custom derivation path.

then, I couldn't send to myself as different script, so I had to send to temp wallet then back.

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