I am? I don't know think I am? I want everyone to use paid relays! I also think it's good to run a private one to backup your own data. I do both and think everyone should do both.
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paid relays are an unneeded side track, nostr wont grow without free public relays and real spam solutions
I'm not paying a relay operator to fight spam. Spam wasn't an issue for me. It'd just an added bonus. I'm paying relay operators because server infrastructure isn't free. But I do agree that we'll always need free relays.