dont be nervous, that can only make it worse.
if your family is healthy then they will have your back, and if your relationship is healthy the vibes will be right and everyone will fit together.
if one of those isnt healthy than being nervous won’t make it so.
This is so true, thank you. This helped bring me back down to earth a bit.
👍thats good to hear!
the part i didn’t say about not being nervous is what to do instead. focus on being natural with your partner.
after meeting my wifes and friends family the thing they all said to me later on when i actually became part of the family is that they could tell we were comfortable together right away. they said they could tell by the way i touched her and looked at her (not in a pda type of way but in a “im here for you” type of way.
of course not everyone shows affection in the same way but however you act when you are together alone on the couch, just do that.
**wife’s friends and family
