Attitude for me. There's a difference between confidence and cockiness, strutting and preening make me laugh and confidence is attractive. General healthiness is a good thing...skin, teeth, and hair are a byproduct of this. And personally I like a masculine man that isn't terrified because I'm female.

Hubs and I have been together for over 20 years and have known each other over 30, I'm spoiled and will probably never find another to compliment me so well in so many ways if I were to have to look.