Subnostr

Don't be silly with your misogynic 'God' --rofl the absurd use of the capital G-- and relidocile husband! She sounds more than --potentially-- qualified to become a computer scientist.

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She's very qualified. However, she does not want to be. We both believe in big G God. She's also the type of woman to submit to her husband by full intelligent choice and faith. Your attempts to demean her beliefs are as ridiculous as your lack of any consistency in your note.

You're an idiot and I think I'll likely mute you if you can't bother to be civil. 🤷‍♂️

'does not want to be'? there's relipressure for ya

And what's wrong with that if it's something someone chooses?

How many men choose this? If none, why not? It's a free choice, no social pressure, etc.

Choose what, precisely?

you're asking yourself: read back

I'm asking you to clarify.

read back your own remark about choice and try to think back what you meant by it (shouldn't be too difficult, should it)

No, it shouldn't, but you're just being intentionally evasive at this point.

I'm not going to do your homework for you! Period.

Because men are not women, so they can't actually be wives.

Still, they can choose to do chores and raise the children, if their wives are more qualified to do the money earning.

BTW my writings were not intended to demean anyone's beliefs.

You sure did and insulted Stella's basic intelligence and general competence.

no I didn't

Yes, you did.

I just told you I didn't and that's final!

Sure. It is.

Thank you! I'm glad you conceded or else proud to be muted by you!

Actually I stated the opposite concerning her intelligence (that was the whole point of my note)

That's true.

He's trying to help me with my studies more, as he sees me sort of burning out and becoming discouraged. An entire semester of only applied math classes is making me go nuts.

He thinks I should at least try to finish and then I can always do something else. Give it the ole "college try" 😂.

Ugh, just saw that you're talking to that guy I muted.

That would make most people go nuts, especially if you have to do dumb presentations in latex. (the markup language, perverts. 🙄 Germany is weird, but probably not that weird yet. 😏)

I get the thought about wanting to try, but from someone who tries college 5 times and just gave up... I don't think that there is any shame in you deciding that it isn't for you. However, you certainly are capable enough mentally to do it. 🤷‍♂️

I don't really have any reason to quit, since I don't need to pay for it and I don't need to work. I can just keep on being bored, for a while, and see what happens.

I can't really start a new job right now, anyway, as we have so much travel and house moving and stuff, planned.

But I'm keeping the sacristan idea in the back pocket. I've been doing it, for years, I just want to focus more on it. We'll see.

It's good to not have a rush to make a decision like that and give yourself more time to let time teach you where you need to apply yourself the most.

He said it's just exam anxiety. 😂

Fact check: true.

Well, then, it'll be fine in a few weeks. ☺️

They'll either kick me out or I have to slog through one more semester. 🤷‍♀️