Men and Woman on this platform..
Hypothetical question..
Couple together for 18 years - married with 2 kids (5 and 10 months old)
Wife just admitted to an affair..
What you doing in this situation?
#asknostr
Discussion
Request DNA test of the kids, exit 1, nothing to stderr.
Separation.
Even with children involved, you have to end the relationship/marriage, etc. If possible, bring your children to live with you so they don’t suffer from parental alienation. If that’s not an option, see them as much as possible, but end the relationship.
Agreed with this point.. once trust is broken it can never ever ever be fixed in my opinion..
Unfortunately the person is in a jurisdiction where the law protects the woman and kids far more than it does men..
All places are like this. Do your part and see them as much as possible, but under no circumstances go back to that person. What you had no longer exists.
Not where I’m from - but the USA looks after the mom and kids way more…
Agreed.. under no circumstances should they ever be together! Be courteous and don’t give one the reaction and attention they so badly want…
Yes, all of this is complicated, but you have to do what’s within your reach.
Be stoic, and keep moving forward!
The main issue is the legal system in the west. Women are literally rewarded for there shitty behaviour by the legal system, and they know it. This breeds selfish and apathetic behaviour and it destroys the family unit, and I don’t think it’s by accident.
I agree
It is to the point now that women with corrupt lawyers coach them how to set men up with getting pregnant and then dragging them through court, weaponizing the court system. It’s disgusting