This is how I knew he was the one. He dated me with intention. He wanted a wife and a family. I did too. I honestly wish we would've married sooner (after dating 3yrs) and had kids sooner (4 years after marriage).
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I don't fault us or anyone else for making the mistake of waiting too long to have kids. It's natural to think kids will make less time between you and your significant other. (A selfish desire in retrospect) I can only give this advice because we can look at our past and recognize the mistakes. And it was a mistake. I do have less time with my wife now, but the bond your children create for you is priceless.