There:

Easiest and fastest, but almost most expensive, how to start on fully self custodial lightning:

1) have a UTXO of at least 1M sats

2) buy a @Start9 or @umbrel

3) watch the @BTCsessions YouTube video titled UMBREL - How To Use Your Bitcoin and Lightning Node (NEW)

4) open a channel to @The Nodestrich ♾️ or @LNServer

5) download @ZEUS on your phones, sync with your node, btcsessions also has content on this.

If you have more money than time, this is how to do it on easy mode.