All I'm saying is it's up to each individual to decide that on their own. And back to my original note... There is obvious calculation that might make a person - male or female - decide to work and get paid.
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I agree with that statement. I would just point out that for most people marriage is more often than not a much better route to success for an individual.
The same way I believe it's up to each individual to decide if they want to do heroin or not. That doesn't mean choosing or not choosing heroin doesn't have its consequences for most people.
It's not the best metaphor because not getting married won't actually kill you... But getting married and staying married usually leads to far more successful people
