Our daughter doesn't look like other girls.

Every parent thinks that, but I know it to be true. She isn't ugly, as there's nothing particularly unpleasant about her appearance. But one can't really describe her as "pretty", either, since pretty women all look alike and she's so terribly odd and exotic-looking.

Well, exotic, like an English Rose 🌹.

One day, she's dull, grey, mousey, nondescript, plain. The next, she is stunning us with those sky-blue, sparkling eyes, the brilliant smile, those elegant, refined bones. A true lady. The next day, it is back to grey, as if a switch had been flipped.

Perhaps all girls have that switch and we merely don't notice because they are painted.

Every day, we rise, and wait to see if our sun will come out.

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Do you know about temperaments?

phlegmatic, choleric, sanguine, melancholic

I think she will be properly motivated by what her specific temperament is drawn to. Also, working on sublimation of her vices while working on her virtues (meaning the ones easily practiced by her temperament as much as the most difficult virtues she struggles with developing.

She swings wildly between phlegmagic and choleric. That is, perhaps, what we're all sensing.

Most people are more constant.

https://www.goodcatholic.com/a-catholic-guide-to-the-four-temperaments/

I see.

You are right that one temperament is the norm.

That been said, we do have points of contact of our virtues and vices across the temperaments. But it is always different for the motivation of said virtues and vices.

So, I think you need to check on the virtues to ordenante her instinctive actions into actions moved by her virtues only. Patience seems to be one of them. Fortitude for resilience. Curbing vanity for lesser desire of being praised.

Things like that.

But you are the one to know better of that is the proper way to address it.

she is pretty enough to catch and keep a mate. Just tell her to keep smiling.

All the girls i knew that were like this, were interesting girls. That is all i know...

She is really interesting. We're all fascinated by her. 😂