Highly recommend you listen to this if you want to improve your relationship and/or understand male sexuality better.
https://video.nostr.build/a563c7d5791e0811ec8ef3f4859b7818d567a34c37dc00015667f1a54fe5f2fc.mp4
Discussion
Source: https://youtu.be/seMwGNEzQto
Yeesh. I think he’s right, which is very depressing 😳
Explains the state of men very well.
“Where have all the men gone?”
They’ve been domesticated.
A gentleman is a man who never gives offense unintentionally.
Self control doesn't hurt anyone. That is different than losing the edge required to give insult or stand up for yourself.
Sure a lot of men have lost it. Part of "where men went" is that a real man doesn't really look like any pop culture BS parody so people aren't looking in the right places.
Maybe pretentious to add here, but I'm at home having a quiet evening with my family. Same way I spend most nights.
Well, nice. Apparently, you’ll need to make a large effort to maintain novelty. Or else, the other choices.
It’s worth it if you want a stable home for your children
Better for your kids and better for your wallet to keep a wife and only that 1 stable partner.
Better for you too if you are capable of being more than a walking boner. Describing men as just a sex drive leaves a lot out of the picture. While what he describes is common, lots of animals do pair bond for life and the male remains loyal to that 1 partner.
Pair bonding is more common in species with fewer kids. The fewer kids females are willing or able to have the more evolution will favor males who stick around and invest in their children.
I kinda suspect humans are in the process of evolving away from spray and pray towards pair bonds but it hasn't fully finished yet. How do fatherless kids fare? How long does it take humans to reach adulthood compared to other species?
Being a philandering young man meets your novelty desires but ignores everything else about you. Easier to drive up novelty in a marriage than to get emotional connection in a 1 night stand.
"Most men die at 27, we just wait to 72 to bury them" oof.
Definitely neurotic productivity (video games not real productivity) and get fat until your T drops and your libido goes away as the leaders today.
It’s insanely accurate when you look at men today. People complain about where all the men have gone. They’ve been domesticated. Defanged. Declawed.
My cat will torture and murder any mouse that gets in, play with the corpse for a while, then leave the head outside my bedroom door as a gift after eating the rest of it.
That doesn't stop him from laying around on the couch begging for snuggles and pets in between mouse infiltrations.
I guess my point is, and any martial artist will back this up, you can't tell which men are badasses and which are whimps unless you see them fight. The warrior in the garden looks like a gardener between wars.
Counterintuitively to western propaganda about masculinity, primate studies show that the guy with the highest testosterone engages in the most domestic, pro social, and cooperative behavior. The low T dudes pick all the fights and only when they pick on the big guy do you see that he can fight too, and better than them.
My cat is smaller than the average size cat but that fucker doesn’t fear anything. I let him out sometimes and he comes back with mice and birds. He’s the only cat I’ve ever had that actually eats them. But he’s also the most affectionate cat I’ve ever had. He is very needy and wants attention often.
Yeah, Orion's a powerhouse. The only "famous" guy I know that understands austrian economics AND men and women's psychology. Even heard him mention Bitcoin one time.
I read his book and can’t help but think he’s been influenced by Austrian economics. I keep urging nostr:npub1xnc64f432zx7pw4n7zrvf02mh4a4p7zej3gude52e92leqmw8ntqd43qnl to check out his book
I thought the same which was confirmed when he mentioned he read 'human action' by Mises.