Ok nostr:npub1rzg96zjavgatsx5ch2vvtq4atatly5rvdwqgjp0utxw45zeznvyqfdkxve , I just now figured this out: if you use a remote signer in conjection with mobile browser stuff, you can sign into https://nosotros.app which has a nice relay discovery & browsing section. You can't view relay policy & accepted kind types for the dm part of nostr:npub1fhpw2ux9flhcxyl6xp84996qgnkkcy59zqzjvq9fhpxcx7upymus69ds8n 's video, but you can sort browsable relays by region. It even differentiates paid, private, and such.

I suppose there is the handy nsec login method. We all know that's ill advised, but to each their own 😅