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Im going to tell you how I handle women in my life regarding a sour mood after rough day.

First, I try to assess whether they are venting (wanting me to listen)

-or-

Are they asking for advice.

—As a man, I tend to try and fix things. I have found that when women bitch, they usually just want to bitch.

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The one big takeaway that I got from reading "Men are Mars, women are from Venus" was exactly this dynamic.

Women like to be able to share their worries without necessarily wanting a solution.

Men on the other hand, immediately put on the Mr. Fixit hat and go about seeking and offering a solution to the problem.

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That’s required reading for young men.

—Women read it and they’re like duh, doesn’t everyone know this?!?