-> so the answer for "what should a normie use" is Cake Wallet. got it.

If you'd like to see more adoption of Monero (and I would), the first thing you tell a normal person cannot be "learn cryptography".

It would be reasonable to say "Hey, friend, use Cake Wallet and you'll be up and running immediately. BUT before you have X dollars or more in your wallet, make sure you understand A B and C crypto fundamentals for your own safety!"

These are very different paths