The Monstrous and Truly Evil Nature of a Narcissist
A narcissist’s monstrous and truly evil nature breaks through all barriers and comes to the surface once they are done with you—whether because you’ve seen through them, they’ve lost control over you, or you no longer serve their purpose. They will go to insane lengths to hurt you or sabotage your healing, all with one goal in mind: to keep you trapped where they left you and maintain control.
When dealing with narcissists, it is crucial to understand their behavioral patterns, especially after they decide they’re done with you. Narcissists exhibit different tendencies once they feel they’ve lost control, lost interest, or faced rejection in a relationship. When a narcissist is finished with you, they often engage in a series of actions aimed at maintaining power and inflicting harm.
Recognizing these patterns is key to understanding and coping with the aftermath of a relationship with a narcissist. It allows you to protect yourself and move forward toward healing.
They Treat You Like a Stranger
A narcissist will treat you like a complete stranger once they’re done with you, once you’ve inflicted a major ego wound, or once they realize you know exactly who and what they are. They sever any emotional attachment as if it never existed. The truth is, it never did. It was all a lie. Now that there’s no longer a reason to keep up the act, they become as cold as stone, refusing to acknowledge your presence.
After discarding you, they act as if you are their worst enemy. Your life with them turns into a terrifying battlefield. Their rage erupts, and you are left in shock at how your partner or even a parent suddenly seems to forget that there was ever a connection between you. With no respect for anything, the experience is deeply unsettling, leaving you confused and devalued.
They Become Your Worst Enemy
As I mentioned before, narcissists become your worst enemies. They have no regard for the fact that there was once a relationship between you. They will use every tool at their disposal to destroy you. This could mean launching extensive smear campaigns, targeting your finances, or isolating you in the workplace. Nothing is off-limits because they are willing to sink to any level to hurt you.
They have no fear of escalating things into full-scale warfare if it means winning or regaining control. A toxic, enraged narcissist will continue to pour hatred onto you with one goal in mind: to punish you. To do so, they will hurl insults, belittle your achievements, or constantly criticize your actions—if they still have access to you.
In Extreme Cases
In extreme cases, they may even resort to stalking, harassment, hacking your devices, or physical aggression. All of this proves one thing: they have zero regard for your feelings, your well-being, or your rights. This immoral, antisocial, and disgusting behavior is a clear sign of their lack of empathy, their need for control, and their deep-seated desire to dominate others.
They Blame You for Everything
Narcissists are masters of the blame game. When a relationship or family unit falls apart, they paint you as the villain. Every argument, every disagreement, every issue—in their eyes, you are the sole cause of it all. They take no responsibility for anything and instead play the victim.
They will tell this story to friends, family, or anyone who will listen, portraying themselves as the innocent party and you as the destructive force.
They Pretend to Be Happy with Someone Else
This is one of the most painful aspects of dealing with a narcissist who pretends to have moved on. The truth is, they never truly "move on" because they were never really present in the first place. They don’t connect, commit, or invest in relationships in a genuine way.
Once they discard you or you leave them, they quickly replace you with a new person. They flaunt this new relationship, making sure you see it, hoping to trigger jealousy or regret. They flood their social media with pictures and stories carefully crafted to make it seem like they’ve found the perfect partner.
The underlying message is clear: they’re thriving without you, and it’s your loss. But you and I both know the truth—narcissists are the least desirable people. Their lives are nothing more than a performance, one that deserves pity. Because even after leaving you, they remain driven by their deep-rooted insecurities and shame. Instead of reflecting and working on themselves, they are obsessed with proving you wrong.
They’re Never Really Done with You
The irony is, even when a narcissist is "done" with you, they’re not really done. Their focus remains on you. Whether they try to destroy your reputation, manipulate your emotions, or harm you in some way, their obsession doesn’t end.
The best way to deal with this? Minimize risk, protect yourself, secure your position, and most importantly—ignore them. They are not worth your energy.
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