I’ve learned this lesson too many times 🥲 #costar #spirituality

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Hard lessons, too. When people show you who they really are, believe them. ☕🤙🏼

And believe them the first time!

I recently went through 6 years of it, so massive lesson learned 😆

That’s so long 🥲

It’s okay, an encyclopedia of lessons learned 🙏🏼

What are some red flags you believe in?

The social media following, not being single for awhile after the last relationship, telling me I don’t need to worry about a particular woman, never defining the relationship and wanting to “go with the flow,” immediately talking sexual after first meeting, inconsistency, actions don’t match words, not posting about/mentioning me on their social media. That’s all I got for now 😂 All from personal experience. What are some you believe in?

1. Don't take God and religion seriously

2. Backbiting about father and brothers

3. Seeking other men attention

4. having boy best friend , "he is just my friend"

5. Bossy,

and Yes, who do make up all the time

Oh the seeking attention and validation is a good one! I completely missed that one.

Oh and another is “I don’t need therapy” or refusing to ever go.

Be smart and be cautious.