Subnostr

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nami

I mean except

Mr. Womens'-Standards-Are-Too-High-Now-They-Expect-Food-And-Drink

there is Mr. "i paid for you bitch, now satisfy me" who might be even worse.

Don't advice your daughter to filter guys by paying or not in a date. Seriously...

Laeserin 1y ago

No, I definitely advise that.

She doesn't HAVE to marry and she might even be the wealthier person at the date.

Nobody ever considers the fact that this is part of associative mating. You're looking for the sort of man you are used to being around.

And if those men are generous, they also will advise you to look for someone generous because they don't want you bringing someone else to their home, later. You are picking someone out to enlarge your extended family, after all. Everyone has to deal with this guy. Everyone has to "date" him, at some point. You think they want to "date" some guy that wouldn't even buy a round?

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nami 1y ago

I think, i am pretty sure, that the generosity could very well be an ulterior motive. In other words if i just wanted to try to fuck and exploit, i would play safe and buy the drinks. Do you get me? I strongly advice you to let your husband advice your daughter preferably. Filtering guys by buying or not, is not a good advice.

Laeserin 1y ago

My husband is 💯 opposed to women paying for dates. He sees it as a sign of the breakdown of civilization.

nami 1y ago

Oh no. He is stuck in the past i think.

Well, what i had to say on this, i said it. It's your choice.

Laeserin 1y ago

I like guys who are stuck in the past. I am also stuck there. 😂

nami 1y ago

I am trying too. It's more romantic, surely your husband must be romantic. Lucky you.

The problem is, other people aren't...

Laeserin 1y ago

I'm not married to other people, tho. 🤷‍♀️

The whole point of dating is to find someone compatible.