Just got a very stark reminder about how predatious and evil metadata collection is.

Reconnected with a family member, well, stepmother, technically, but I haven't talked to them in over a decade. Ultimately a good thing.

What happened was, though, she got an automated robocall using my real name, saying that there was something extremely urgent that I had to deal with. She's probably around 70 or she years old, has never been very tech savvy, but luckily she just listened to the voicemail that was left and didn't engage with this scammer and texted me about it. So that's good.

But what it made me realize is that because, again, due to her lack of tech savviness and whatnot, we contacted each other with vanilla SMS, which probably means a couple of things might have happened. Between my phone carrier and hers, somewhere along the lines, metadata got collected and they drew a correlation saying that because we have been connected in the past and have just now reconnected, it is now new connection data and data brokers eat that shit up like gold. Leading to her to get a spam call about me in a relatively short amount of time after reconnecting. It's been like barely three weeks.

The behavior is so genuinely disgusting to me, and the fact that it is legal is even more disgusting. Anyways, stay safe out there. Protect your loved ones. And for God's sake, never communicate with a regular vanilla means I guess.

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Yeah this is very difficult.

We recently had to remove some tech from an older family member because she kept falling for scams. She called me in a panic once, I raced over to the house and the scumbags had convinced her to enable here video camera. They had been watching her the whole time in her home (for about 3-4 hours). She didn't tell me what was going on. The Indian guy seemingly knew who I was (Ive dealt with many of these Indian scams, almost a dozen now so I have a routine to deal with them) and I was like how TF does this guy know what I look like!?!? Thank goodness I quickly looked at her laptop to realize her camera light was on!

I was like WTF you didn't tell me you were on your laptop.

Anyway that laptop got crushed into a million pieces. We had to migrate her whole financial life because she gave it all away (it was mostly fine thankfully). And we stripped her of most online freedoms. The only one she wouldn't let us take is Facebook, which is worst of them all.

They called me "boy with long hair and ball cap"

Christ. Thats fucking wild.

Yeah I still worry about that interaction. Like what else did I/we say they heard on the mic in the room.

Oof, yeah, that would drive me wild.