this is very interesting topic. how should I phrase it?

hhhmmnm. I guess I am fortunate enough to be often at the receiving end of it. I am grateful for it. But I'd never expect it. The less I expect it the more often I receive it.

As for what I think of it. It is always a bliss to see kindness and bravery. But as a woman esp when travelling alone, I always have it at the back of my mind the "intent". Whether someone has a hidden agenda or pure kindness. As for my partner, it is basic traits of him. Therefore my man naturally kind towards others. I trust him enough to know that he is being kind vs being flirtatious.

But then again I am speaking from experience. ☺️