No sats are never lost in a tx. The transaction will just not happen unless you rebroadcast it later or some nodes with bigger mempool rebroadcast it. You can bump the fee with CPFP or RBF or just wait some days/weeks/months
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So I bumped the fee with CPFP but I didn't bump it enough and now the transactions are not showing in sparrow. It's still showing up on Blockstream Green mobile though. I messed up, cause now I can't bump the fee again I don't think so I just have to wait, and hope.
You could just do a new transaction with higher fee if you sent it to yourself, otherwise maybe an even higher CPFP in green?