So women on Nostr are being disproportionately targeted by trolls (likely kids, but nevertheless).

One idea to try - zap defense!

You could pay for someone to pre-review or filter the notes in your timeline and all comments to your posts.

Benefit - men get to see what women experience daily. People that are targeted get some help. If a real person or even a friend does the filtering, it can be nicely personalized.

Negative - this is like the South Park episode where Butters has to filter social media comments for Demi Lovato and Steven Seagal.

We could take this a bit further and anyone could request zap-defense help and people would send them zaps to their personal zap defense fund that's then used for paying to filterers...

We could take this even further and AI bots could be competing in this free market competition for being the personal filters...

Nostr apps could have a special feature section for this. Essentially "I'm being trolled and I need help" button that would automate most of this if possible. And this experience could also help mentor people through the situation, give contacts to actual therapist (if things get really bad), etc.