I get that impression too but I am trying to use good-faith and be as friendly as possible because it actually does hurt me to see people falling into the same trap again.
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It's frustrating because I know that people will think I am coming at this from "of course his server gets blocked a lot so he doesn't like it" when it really is, I have perfectly non-offensive friends and acquaintances that have been just totally fucked by the irrational blocking shit on Fedi.
I guess it's part of the Bitcoin ethos, that they've spent the last decade and a half being shit on, so developed a complete immunity to all criticism whatsoever. At least the fediverse people came at it from the perspective of wanting a conversation, instead of a specific conversation, even if the protocol there is more easily abused.
hmm this is a good point, they may already just feel embattled all the time. I will be considerate of this point of view in the future.
In the business we call this "being a fake ass nigga"