Are paid relays better for people who read or people who write?
On face value it appears to me relays have incentive to include quality content regardless.
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If you want to read, just add all of the relays. If you want to write add all of the relays. If you want to filter dm's dont include free relays sending you dm's. Your settings having greater impact as opposed to paying for a free relay or 2.