I accidentally solved that by being the one who stays home schooling the kids. My wife is great but she didn't want to homeschool. We just kind of fell into it with COVID etc. But I am not sure how I am going to handle high school. It is hard to juggle very different ages. Have an infant in my arms right now and need to be hands on with the kindergartener.
But I want that affore mentioned lab so I can do highschool and college for my kids.