Narcissists portray us as the entire problem in relationships starting with us and then moving to everyone else around us. They’re pretty good at manipulating people, at least until you see it.
For many of us, we even thought that we were the problem, so it isn’t a stretch for others to think so too.
Just because narcissists are good at convincing everyone else that we are the problem DOES NOT MEAN WE ACTUALLY ARE.
Even if we have caused problems in the relationship, this still does not mean we are the entire problem no matter what anyone says.
#grownostr