Each time I use desktop clients something bad happens. Follow lists and relays disappear to varying degrees.

The best desktop was nostrgram but it was abandoned last year. The new breed are competing on features but not really thinking about user experience from first principles.

nostr:npub1m4ny6hjqzepn4rxknuq94c2gpqzr29ufkkw7ttcxyak7v43n6vvsajc2jl commented on this somewhere, that apps are being thrown out there without a long term plan, and we're the live experiment, advancing nostr at our own inconvenience and risk, because it's better than the alternative.

A bit like bitcoin... but yeah it's hard being a perpetual guinea pig 🫡