My kids blow my mind with how amazing they are. They don't act like typical teenagers. I feel very lucky. I credit myself, their mother, and their school. I am blessed.
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The "good" kids still weren't good to me and their parents wouldn't have known since they weren't my parents
I only think you're right about your kids because you've put effort into building a life better than society offers, and I grew up in a place for people who just want "the best of society" whatever that means - probably no families like yours in my home area
I am very blessed. All we can do is our best with what we have.