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Looking back on some family turmoil it feels silly that anyone ever tried to control me or that I was mad at them for doing so.

Waste of energy.

If you know what I’m talking about and you’re going through a similar thing my advice is to just disengage.

You don’t have to fight or try and change anyone’s mind.

You don’t even have to feel resentment.

Just do your own thing, without anyone else’s input.

March to the beat of your own drum.

Don’t hurt anyone, don’t make it dramatic. Don’t scream and gnash teeth. Just disengage entirely.

HODL 9mo ago

You can just be your own person.

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JS 9mo ago

Here’s my thought…If disengaging completely is first, it can come back to haunt you internally. Be who you want to be and own it. Make sure to voice your opinions and get it off your chest. I think that’s part of the process. It needs to be done. They can choose to hear it or not. Then you can separate or disengage without giving any power away.

Tawiskaro 9mo ago

You can just do what you want.

Beau Winn 9mo ago

Facts. Let your authenticity shine. The world needs more of it.