Obviously secular (hedonistic) women in their 20s and early 30s are happier as singles without kids. they have more free time, more disposable income, less responsibility.

the problem is when you hit late 30s, 40s when you realize your home is empty, your friends betrayed you, your parents left this world and your siblings moved away from you.

then you have all this disposable income but nothing meaningful to spend it towards... ashes to ashes, dust to dust. but by then its too late.

this is just like kids who dont want to do their homework, dont want to study, want to eat candy all day... like yeah your enjoying yourself now but what about your future?

i dont know why people have placed anecdotes above logic