https://apps.apple.com/us/app/orbot/id1609461599

Once it's installed open the settings and enable the option labelled "Disable Orbot for non-onion traffic."

Now any traffic to an onion service on your iPhone/iPad will use Orbot's SOCKS5 proxy transparently.

This should mean my Tor relay will work on iOS!

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