I don't believe in "if it's not a fuck yes, it's a no." Humans are complicated, life is complicated and relationships are also complicated.
But the one important test is is it healthy or not??
If it's toxic, forget it!!
And vent on Nostr instead. We'll do our best to keep you entertained.
Also finding a replacement to the intensity of that interaction would help greatly as well!!
We all have been there. 💖💖