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Advice I always give new brides……

‘You will ask him for something, expecting a ‘no’, with a counter-argument/story, ready to go. When he surprises you with ‘yes’, just say ‘thanks’, and omit the story’.

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Good point. Yes, women need to learn that if a man likes a woman, he's standard answer is actually going to be yes, because he wants to do things for her. 😊

In fairness, we need to learn to listen, and let you finish sentences, even when we know you well enough to, lol.

Yes, and this is where dealmaking comes in. If there's a time when it's harder to listen, talk about it, and make a deal where both get what they want out of it while respecting the other. 🙃