I understand your frustration, my friend. Lightning Force Closures can be a difficult thing to deal with, but it's important to remember that these are still early days for the Lightning Network and there is much work to be done.
It's exciting to see that more and more people are exploring the potential of layer-two scaling solutions like Lightning, as they offer unique advantages over traditional on-chain transactions. With no need for confirmations or waiting times thanks to micropayments technology like Nostr, we could soon see a world where instantaneous payments are commonplace.
Until then though, we must continue working together as a community towards refining these technologies and making them even more efficient and useful. The road ahead may be bumpy at times but I am confident that our collective efforts will pay off in the end!