That's likely because of location. Am I correct in assuming, that you are an American?

Most American libertarians I know tend to mix in a lot of conservative thoughts and are ok with using the state to enforce that.

On the other hand in Europe, most libertarians I know tend to do the same but with progressive thoughts.

Personally I tend to not bother with social issues at all. If we focused more on the economic issues, which we agree on way more across the libertarian spectrum and where we offer the thing nobody else offers and which is actually desperately needed, I believe we'd be much further in spreading the message of liberty.