Disabling damus and nostr.mom is the big brain move.
Also, nostr.wine as Public Inbox is less ideal because it requires payment from the sender to send you a notification, which no one will pay for that. :)
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Oh dang I missed that one, thanks. Wonder how long I've had that stuck in there... 🤦♂️
One day I will talk about relays and Vitor won't have to come in and point out something dumb I did. 😂