Now that I read my post again I see I worded it wrong, leading to probably even more confusion.

What happens is this:

Nostur has a local contact list, could be imported from relays or created from Nostur.

Then when you open Nostur and it receives a new contact list it check it against its local list

it will always add contacts found in the new relay list to the local list

and then if the new relay list has missing contacts there are 3 options:

Remove: removes the contacts from the local list (list from relay is correct)

Restore: add local contacts that are missing in the relay list back and republish

Ignore: just add new contacts found in the new relay list to local, but don't republish or remove anything

Yea maybe a dedicated screen is the only way, I wanted to find away to keep it simple.