It occurs to me I had not valued nostgram.co highly enough... this thing is awesome. The speed of replies, notifications and interaction in general is a lot better than other clients.
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I need to give it more time then. Thanks for the recommendation.
I saw a post by the dev on here and he was saying they use a server to cache content from the 150 top relays.
So when your phone/browser pulls it comes from 1 place rather than all your relays. This makes it faster. Then when you post it still gets sent to all of your relays.
But no Zap's, right?