i rewrote it from the ground up with mkstack lol :) im still using livekit as the backend. that gave me some headaches trying to get the endpoints and tokens right, but it's all working on my machine now. ill hopefuly have it done in a day or so.
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the wild part is, i basically just use livekit, here's what i want to API to look like, and build the backend for me. and it did it! it struggled with a couple things and took a long time to figure it all out, but it wasn't too bad.