I've been working on a nip42 auth proxy for strfry (Or any relay). I tricked it out for working with the relay tools API and multiple subdomains, but it can easily work with a static auth list or something like that with some modifications. It's working pretty well so far and live as a feature for any relay.tools relays. Example at auth.nostr1.com https://github.com/relaytools/interceptor
There's also fiatjaf's khatru, natively supports nip42:
https://github.com/fiatjaf/khatru
@mleku is also working on a heavily modified khatru for performance called replicatr I think he is releasing it soonish..