This sounds like you had a bad experience yourself on which you base a vague general statement , or you had no experience at all with makes the statement baseless. There is no “most therapy” as each example of therapy is a unique relationship between the therapist and the person using the therapy. Good therapy aims to undo all the things you listed, and is a useful tool for some aspects of life.

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This sounds like you don’t have as good or clear of an understanding of the cultural zeitgeist as I do. Glad you had a good experience in therapy though.

Regardless if you feel you have a good understanding of the zeitgeist or not, generalisation as a way of seeing the world is rarely helpful long term. Don’t trust (someone else’s opinion), verify (for yourself). 🧘🏻‍♀️

I’ve done therapy a few times. It’s not for me, but again happy you found value in it!

found out that i need mentors and coaches instead of a therapists and psychologists tbh

regular ranting and trauma dumping is not good for you

need guidance, inspo and tips and tricks on how to succeed

Incentives are messed up, too, in therapy. A few people need it. Most don’t.

Unfortunately those are always the people least likely to go to therapy lol 😂