I agree with all that. It's not hurting him directly. And it's rude to Tesla owners. Of course, many are now putting on that sticker, "I bought this before Elon went crazy." Etc... But I agree. It's a terribly frustrating thing to do to someone else's private property; I'm not advocating that. Protesting at the shops, more understandable, and selling $TSLA, even more so.
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I hope the other people with whom you're having spats see this message and understand it.
I think you're talking past eachother. They think you're applauding destruction of private property of innocent bystanders, and you appear to think that by getting outraged about property destruction, they must support a Nazi-sympathizer.
There might be a microscopic shred of truth to both, but not at all to the degree you're misunderstanding eachother.
I'm glad we didn't have that same problem.
And yes, point taken about the (subtle) difference between destroying Gary-down-the-street's Tesla vs one on a dealership lot. I oppose both, but I can see the difference and I failed to mention that in my first post.