relax a bit, let the clients get out of beta.
Technically, clients only need to follow nip 01.
by tagged I mean mentioned in by a user putting your pubkey… of course the original author a1 should receive the reactions to their note.
If a client is sending me notifications that your reply to me was liked, I won’t use that client.
that’s the beauty of that technicality, and what makes nostr so great.