My question is about #privacy. Not censorship.
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Oh ..I got you .. sorry for jumping the gun .. you mean you wanna post but you want to limit your posts to few people ..right ? Then post to your own relay and let the people you want to share with add your relay .. isn't that simple ?
At your relay , you can sure restrict access .. I am not sure though ! With NIP 96 , you will prolly have capability to set up your own media server too ..