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Oh I can totally find people attractive after conversation and interaction. I can also see someone who is objectively handsome and then they open their mouth and I’m like hard no. Someone intelligent and curious is really attractive to me. I think you need at least a mustard seed for attraction to grow. My longer relationships have been with guys I didn’t take notice of at first. Either my mind was on another guy. (I seem to crush monogamously 😂) Or something just shifted and I was like oh hey you.

Smell is also a weird thing for me. I met a man who seemed perfect in every way. It wasn’t a hygiene issue. His smell was just wrong somehow, like the pheromones were off. I don’t know how to explain it.

Attraction is so weird.
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3shara 2y ago

💯 agree! Haha yeah looks really aren't the end all be all - they are somewhat important cos of the initial attraction but what keeps you is so much more. Yeahh smart guys are ✨👌.

Totally agree. My friend Joe was like 'just see how it goes' but I can't do that 🫠 what if he caught feelings and I decided he wasn't for me and I've just led him on so I could experiment ? 😭 that's awful I can't do that. But that is basically what dating is I suppose...

Omg I crush monogamously too! 😂 Ah see I'm a little different. My longest relationship I noticed right away - he didn't notice me 😂. I saw him across the room in class and his eyes were like those cartoon sparkly eyes and I thought, 'yepp, he's the one'😌. *Whispers* He wasn't the one 😂👀.

Ohh that's interesting 🤔 that's fair though, I totally agree attraction is a mystery 😂💯

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