Oh I can totally find people attractive after conversation and interaction. I can also see someone who is objectively handsome and then they open their mouth and I’m like hard no. Someone intelligent and curious is really attractive to me. I think you need at least a mustard seed for attraction to grow. My longer relationships have been with guys I didn’t take notice of at first. Either my mind was on another guy. (I seem to crush monogamously 😂) Or something just shifted and I was like oh hey you.
Smell is also a weird thing for me. I met a man who seemed perfect in every way. It wasn’t a hygiene issue. His smell was just wrong somehow, like the pheromones were off. I don’t know how to explain it.
Attraction is so weird.