For the women in this space who have had the misfortune of encountering the very few but very loud members of the machismo red pill crew, remember that people will try to control you by controlling your self concept. These people will try to define for you what “femininity” is. They will try to tell you that it is unfeminine to be a decision maker, to be a leader, etc.

Don’t ever let anyone control your self concept. You are a woman, you define what “femininity” is. Don’t ever let anyone define it for you. ✌️🧡

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omg, Hannah. i love this message so much~!

"They will try to tell you that it is unfeminine to be a decision maker, to be a leader, etc. "

this this this this this

they have no regard for the wisdom, inspiration, and courage embedded within Feminine leadership. it's sad, but your message is much needed and appreciated.

ty. <3333

They try to control men as well and define „masculinity“ for them. Such sad, pathetic people.

cheers to this as well, fren ^^

i member a time when we paid sats for tits

I mean, if you want to hire sex workers that's your business. Why would you tell me about that?

we are here to share stories

Successful, educated and family oriented men have long realized that post-modern femininity is a social, legal and generational liability. With all due respect, I don't buy the 2024 version of "femininity". If a woman's social media accounts look like OF (no matter if you're rich or poor) and you're not mature enough (even though you're already on your late 20's or early 30's, work and claim to be independent) to procure a legitimate family, please, please, please, don't expect the male reptilian brain to abdicate that instinct for you. He will find another woman until he procreates only then he will financially support that woman because that's the mother of his legitimate child.

Women can choose to work or become housewives, men cannot.

everything can easily flip. It's been my experience that women are putting an aweful amount of time into defining "masculinity" .. some even defining it as toxic. Remember that toxicity is found both the feminine and the masculine. I agree with your notion that men will say that a decision making woman is considered unfeminine, but only in specific context. A woman can show masculine qualities and other men will respond to that as if they are dealing with another man. How do women talk to their gay friend? often they talk to them like one of the "girls". * this is simply my observation, take it with a grain of salt * 🙏

let's just stop shoving people into boxes.

hard agree