Absolutely agree. Words have connotation. They matter. The alpha geeks pick words that their sub-culture understands and then they don’t understand why the majority folks don’t get it and then they retreat to dropping meme’s and quippy snarks, which only does more to frustrate well intended learners and slow progress. I’ve been trying to navigate it for two decades with various devs. There’s a weird ego/nerd pride in it which ironically prevents them from achieving the ends they claim to be about. Humans maaan.