I hate surprises😅

I just don't like the idea of not being in the loop 🤔

It feels like I'm being lied to, even if it's something nice, and fuck surprises parties. After a long day the last think I want is to be surprised with a bunch of people im forced to entertain when I should be able to relax

At the same time, I prefer it when people surprise me with something like food versus asking for what I want. Then I don't feel let down when they inevitably get the wrong thing 😂

I love surprising people with food or gifts, like getting my mom a new cooking utensil set because she's been using the same ones since she was in college