Men don't want obedient wives, either, because then they're 💯 responsible for all the stuff that goes wrong. 😂
They hate that!
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There is a world of difference between an obedient wife and a pushover, just like there is a world of difference between a husband who leads and a bully. No one serious wants a pushover or a bully. The result is a lot more cooperation and self-sacrifice than the 1950s would have believe.