Too small indicates he doesn't see his wife for who she is. Too big means he held it up in a store, thought "yeah, that's about how big her ass/chest/thighs is/are" and insinuates that he thinks she's bigger than she is. Both can be triggering for someone with body issues.
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Ah, we're talking when gifting. Yeah, I agree... I've often thought the same thing. I steer clear of clothes
"I thought it was pretty and I think you're pretty so I wanted you to have it."
A scarf. A necklace. Earrings. Those all apply and don't require sizes.
Excellent point.
All things I consider.
But I also bought a tailor's measuring tape too. Is it weird to meausre your wife when she's sleeping?
I guess as long as you're getting the measurements right it's not THAT strange. Then again, she doesn't know that you aren't measuring her for a hole so....make sure she gets the special drink before bed?
"LOL, for real! Gotta keep it on the up and up, ya know? But fr, what’s a special drink lookin’ like in your world? 🍹😜"
Not while she's breastfeeding. Maybe once she's done that.
No clothes for at least a year then.